sex question

[ghostin]

Got a question for you guys


With my ex..when we would have sex..i would usually get her off a few times by fingering her before we got to intercourse. She was extremely tight so it was impossible for me to last long but i figured since i got her off beforehand..then i could be a little selfish.

Anyways..with this current girl, i wanna change that up and i was wondering, when ur screwing a girl and ur about to *** but you want to last longer what do you do? Do u just stop thrusting, just slow down the pace, or what?

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by ghostin
Got a question for you guys


With my ex..when we would have sex..i would usually get her off a few times by fingering her before we got to intercourse. She was extremely tight so it was impossible for me to last long but i figured since i got her off beforehand..then i could be a little selfish.

Anyways..with this current girl, i wanna change that up and i was wondering, when ur screwing a girl and ur about to *** but you want to last longer what do you do? Do u just stop thrusting, just slow down the pace, or what?

i usually stop moving but still stay inside her. she seems to like it and starts to move faster herself

 

[undesputable]

just stop for a little to get some air and recover yourself. It doesnt matter if you leave it in or not just dont be like "HOLY **** im about to blow, give me a second." other things you might want to do is excercise your penis, on your own time at home. Get some good quality porn and beat it, but dont just go 1, 2, 3 and blow it, take your time pace yourself, use the stop and go technique, do kegel excercises and youll be good. But dont over do it, other wise you wont be able to *** period, unless you get a REALLY good blow job or a hand job.

 

[ShyRyder]

first while your fvcking make sure your breathing deep. this relaxes your muscles notice how your tence up before your about to blow. Next physically relax your muscles, pretend your in a pool and let everything go expecially your ass and thigh muscles.
Also concentrate not on the feeling of you dlck but on her smell, your hands on her ass anything else u enjoy. lastly right before you about to blow clamp down on your PC muscle (muscle that stop piss flow) practice when you jack.

recap
deep breathing
muscle relaxation
concentration
PC clamp

have fun

 

[DrDope]

Think about baseball.

 

[ghostin]

koo koo..thanks for the tips

 

[The Bartender]

Google for "kegels"

Also, think of the progression towards your orgasm as a scale 1-10.

1 being basically nothing...maybe not even hard
5 the sex in between 1 and 10
10 you ***

now, think of where your 8 and 9 are. This is where you arent going to be cumming, dont really feel like you are but can if you want. Thats where you want to focus on. Just try to focus on where your point of no return is and practice at maintaining just below that point