"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Single_Sucks

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So whenever I go deep into this girl, well...50% of the time anyway:

1.) She starts making that 'sex noise', you know the one you hear in porno

2.) It feels much tighter

3.) After 10 seconds of this she closes her legs, twists her body away and hence makes me pull out then no more sex.

The problem is with number 3. Why does she want to stop? I thought the 'sex noises' were a good thing for chicks, i mean, wtf?? wtf am i meant to do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't get your question. I said she is the one who stops it, when this happens.
 

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She might be having an orgasm, especially with point number 2), the vagina wall does undergo short contractions when a woman's getting excited.
 

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he asked, how long were you having sex for

could it be she had an orgasm? women also get a funny tickly feeling after they have one, just like us
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Single_Sucks

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Ah, well it can go on for any amount of time with the shallow penetration. But as soon as I switch to deeper stuff then it's like 10-20 seconds max until she's had enough.

I don't know if that is her orgasming or not, she dosn't make it clear really. I'd like to think so.
 

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Seriously guys, being mysterious and taking the lead and all that is great, but a bit of communication in the bedroom is a REALLY good thing. Ask her what's up?

My guess would be that she isn't having an orgasm, that's far too quick, and unlike guys girls can usually continue stimulation during/after orgasm so it wouldn't make sense for her to push you off. If anything I've been told to keep going because it feels extra good right after they ***, more sensative or something.

Perhaps you're actually hurting her? Intense pleasure and pain actually look and sound surprisingly similar. Especially if you say it sounds like porn, that sounds like a real possibility, as most of those girls are obviously not enjoying themselves.
 

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Intense pleasure and pain actually look and sound surprisingly similar
Indeed, that's the annoying bit

Yeah, I never do ask for some reason. I guess I've come to think that it is just the way she is, and that theres noting to do about it. But maybe I will ask next time.
 

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You could try letting her get on top so she can control the speed, roughness, and how deep she wants it. Could be various answers to this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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