"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So whenever I go deep into this girl, well...50% of the time anyway:

1.) She starts making that 'sex noise', you know the one you hear in porno

2.) It feels much tighter

3.) After 10 seconds of this she closes her legs, twists her body away and hence makes me pull out then no more sex.

The problem is with number 3. Why does she want to stop? I thought the 'sex noises' were a good thing for chicks, i mean, wtf?? wtf am i meant to do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't get your question. I said she is the one who stops it, when this happens.
 

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She might be having an orgasm, especially with point number 2), the vagina wall does undergo short contractions when a woman's getting excited.
 

lordson

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he asked, how long were you having sex for

could it be she had an orgasm? women also get a funny tickly feeling after they have one, just like us
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ah, well it can go on for any amount of time with the shallow penetration. But as soon as I switch to deeper stuff then it's like 10-20 seconds max until she's had enough.

I don't know if that is her orgasming or not, she dosn't make it clear really. I'd like to think so.
 

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Seriously guys, being mysterious and taking the lead and all that is great, but a bit of communication in the bedroom is a REALLY good thing. Ask her what's up?

My guess would be that she isn't having an orgasm, that's far too quick, and unlike guys girls can usually continue stimulation during/after orgasm so it wouldn't make sense for her to push you off. If anything I've been told to keep going because it feels extra good right after they ***, more sensative or something.

Perhaps you're actually hurting her? Intense pleasure and pain actually look and sound surprisingly similar. Especially if you say it sounds like porn, that sounds like a real possibility, as most of those girls are obviously not enjoying themselves.
 

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Intense pleasure and pain actually look and sound surprisingly similar
Indeed, that's the annoying bit

Yeah, I never do ask for some reason. I guess I've come to think that it is just the way she is, and that theres noting to do about it. But maybe I will ask next time.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You could try letting her get on top so she can control the speed, roughness, and how deep she wants it. Could be various answers to this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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