I have an issue regarding sex. First couple times I've tried to have sex with my girl I couldn't get hard, probably due to nerves. A while after she gave me head and I was able to get an erection. Not tried having sex since. I want to be able to last a decent amount of time if I can get hard. Is it safe to assume I'll be able to get hard with her now since I have once? I've been considering condoms with some numbing agent to help me last longer, but don't want this to kill my boner if i manage to get one. Without it I think I'll bust too fast. Is just a condom enough to reduce sensitivity without killing my erection? Would drinking a few beers before also make me last longer and reduce nerves? Thanks
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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