I have an issue regarding sex. First couple times I've tried to have sex with my girl I couldn't get hard, probably due to nerves. A while after she gave me head and I was able to get an erection. Not tried having sex since. I want to be able to last a decent amount of time if I can get hard. Is it safe to assume I'll be able to get hard with her now since I have once? I've been considering condoms with some numbing agent to help me last longer, but don't want this to kill my boner if i manage to get one. Without it I think I'll bust too fast. Is just a condom enough to reduce sensitivity without killing my erection? Would drinking a few beers before also make me last longer and reduce nerves? Thanks
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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