"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SEX PROBLEM! Losing erection during sex, what to do?

matygee

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Hey dudes I have a question, me and my girl see each other a minimum 3 times a week (Sometimes up to 5 days a week). She usually stays over on weekends. When we do see each other we see have sex a minimum 3-4 times. But I'm beginning to see a trend with my ****, sometimes I think its being overworked. :crackup: I mean there comes a point where I find it hard to keep the erection up during sex, or after the 4th or 5th round I just find it harder to get up. She usually gives me a blowjow to bring my weener back to life, but she has complained a little and it bothers me. She always says whats wrong with your ****, and even though she gives me *******s she dosent neccessairly like to. Even though she still does :crackup:

anyway is there any way to alleviate maybe help this problem besides cooling down on the sex? I eat healthy and I workout 4 days a week so it isn't my health + I'm 18.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mintxx

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- do a search
- don't beat off or look at porn at all
- drink plenty of fluids, do cardio at least twice a week
- going at it 20 times a week is too much.
- if she complaints, just comment on that and don't let her blow you, stop fvcking her for a while so you can recover, tell her she's putting pressure on you
- get some viagra samples from your gp, get a razor and cut the tab into 2 or 3 mini doses, this will stop you going soft when you're tired
- apart from this, it's all in your head, so relax and focus on tits and forget that it has gone soft in the past.
 

ryannath

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Wow, 20 plus times a week. You fvck more than a porn star. Incredible. No wonder why you can't get it up.
 

Dannyrt34

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That is your penis telling you he's tired. Have some respect for your penis.

What's with all the penis questions guys?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJStrawberry

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5th round? Way to hang in there champ:box: ...Don't even think about viagra..my dad is a doc and I've come up on some viagra randomly laying around the house..Being the experimentalist that I am , I've used it before and would not have used had I known the dangers (Actually i probably still would have but I'm stupid). Luckily , the only side effect I got was a massive splitting headache. Anyways, tell your girl to quit *****ing cause most guys are one round and done. She's used to classic heavy weight bouts cause you spoiled her with them.
 

mintxx

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I'm not saying go drop a whole tab, but if the other stuff fails, that measure will at least break a cycle of performance anxiety in the short term.
 
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