Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sex network poll.

How do you usually get your sex?

  • Strict monogomy - one person and no one else.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Serial monogomy - just in relationships.

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • Piece on the side - have fb(s) but seek out other casuals.

    Votes: 5 20.8%
  • Piece on side #2 - Have a different gf every day of week.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Piece on the side#3 - have few fbs and seek out casuals.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Pure ONS - just seek out random encounters with strangers.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Use a prostitute at least twice a month and view porn.

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • Virgin #1 - never had sex, not currently looking for sex.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Virgin #2 - never had sex, currently looking, no luck so far.

    Votes: 4 16.7%
  • Had sex before, but takes quite a while to find another person.

    Votes: 3 12.5%

  • Total voters
    24
  • Poll closed .

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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IsiMan84

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T-Roy said:
Why are you all hassling him? He was just interested. I like the idea of being in a good relationship and losing my virginity to the right woman. Not just some random girl or a girl I don't care too much about. Why do so many people think being a DJ is all about getting the lay?

I think it's about getting the girl. The lay follows.
I think people are frustrated that he constantly asks questions and does all this analyzing but then does nothing with the results to benefit himself or make any progress. It would be equivalent to signing up for a class, and then never taking a test or doing any homework. So more or less he's just reading things on this site for no reason, making people wonder why he's here in the first place. Does that make sense?
 

JoseJalapenos

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Now isn't it common sense that you should enjoy the journey and not obsess about the destination?
Luke seems to be doing just that.
 

mikeyb

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JoseJalapenos said:
Now isn't it common sense that you should enjoy the journey and not obsess about the destination?
Luke seems to be doing just that.
Ain't no journey, he's just moving round and round in circles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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