"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex network poll.

How do you usually get your sex?

  • Strict monogomy - one person and no one else.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Serial monogomy - just in relationships.

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • Piece on the side - have fb(s) but seek out other casuals.

    Votes: 5 20.8%
  • Piece on side #2 - Have a different gf every day of week.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Piece on the side#3 - have few fbs and seek out casuals.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Pure ONS - just seek out random encounters with strangers.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Use a prostitute at least twice a month and view porn.

    Votes: 3 12.5%
  • Virgin #1 - never had sex, not currently looking for sex.

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Virgin #2 - never had sex, currently looking, no luck so far.

    Votes: 4 16.7%
  • Had sex before, but takes quite a while to find another person.

    Votes: 3 12.5%

  • Total voters
    24
  • Poll closed .

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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IsiMan84

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T-Roy said:
Why are you all hassling him? He was just interested. I like the idea of being in a good relationship and losing my virginity to the right woman. Not just some random girl or a girl I don't care too much about. Why do so many people think being a DJ is all about getting the lay?

I think it's about getting the girl. The lay follows.
I think people are frustrated that he constantly asks questions and does all this analyzing but then does nothing with the results to benefit himself or make any progress. It would be equivalent to signing up for a class, and then never taking a test or doing any homework. So more or less he's just reading things on this site for no reason, making people wonder why he's here in the first place. Does that make sense?
 

JoseJalapenos

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Now isn't it common sense that you should enjoy the journey and not obsess about the destination?
Luke seems to be doing just that.
 

mikeyb

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JoseJalapenos said:
Now isn't it common sense that you should enjoy the journey and not obsess about the destination?
Luke seems to be doing just that.
Ain't no journey, he's just moving round and round in circles.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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