That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
A girl can get pregnant any time up untill her period, the chances are just greater during those five dasOriginally posted by earthshyne
In all likelihood you won't be dealing with poopy diapers anytime soon.
If you blew your load inside the condom and it didn't break, then both you and she are protected. As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed.
wow your biology class sucks. Thats not true at all.Originally posted by earthshyne
As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed. [/B]
http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/fam.htm
- A single egg is released from the ovary (ovulation) 14 days before the next menstrual period. The egg lives inside the woman's body for 12-24 hours.
- Sperm can live in the woman's reproductive system up to 5 days after intercourse, though more often 2 days. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation.
- The exact time of ovulation cannot be predicted, so 2-3 days are added to the beginning and end.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
With most women they are fertile for two days between 10 and 15 days after they start their period. However, since he is only 17 it's a safe bet that the girl is around that age. Teenage girls' cycles are erratic and there is a higher risk of teen girls being fertile at other times than what is considered normal.Originally posted by earthshyne
In all likelihood you won't be dealing with poopy diapers anytime soon.
If you blew your load inside the condom and it didn't break, then both you and she are protected. As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed.