She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A girl can get pregnant any time up untill her period, the chances are just greater during those five dasOriginally posted by earthshyne
In all likelihood you won't be dealing with poopy diapers anytime soon.
If you blew your load inside the condom and it didn't break, then both you and she are protected. As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed.
wow your biology class sucks. Thats not true at all.Originally posted by earthshyne
As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed. [/B]
http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/fam.htm
- A single egg is released from the ovary (ovulation) 14 days before the next menstrual period. The egg lives inside the woman's body for 12-24 hours.
- Sperm can live in the woman's reproductive system up to 5 days after intercourse, though more often 2 days. Pregnancy is most likely if intercourse occurs anywhere from 3 days before ovulation until 2-3 days after ovulation.
- The exact time of ovulation cannot be predicted, so 2-3 days are added to the beginning and end.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
With most women they are fertile for two days between 10 and 15 days after they start their period. However, since he is only 17 it's a safe bet that the girl is around that age. Teenage girls' cycles are erratic and there is a higher risk of teen girls being fertile at other times than what is considered normal.Originally posted by earthshyne
In all likelihood you won't be dealing with poopy diapers anytime soon.
If you blew your load inside the condom and it didn't break, then both you and she are protected. As well, there are only a couple of days per month that a woman is fertile, and if I remember my high school biology correctly, that time is now passed.