"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aBAzLLnA

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Straight to the point, my girl can't get me off...lol I mean, I've tried to do almost everything, but I cannot orgasm. When we have sex, she cums first 15 minutes into it and I'm still there not even close.

I need help with this. I think my cawk is just too unsensitive or something. Anyone have this problem or know what to do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Does she go down on you first? If you climax, you have to deal with your refractionary period. If she doesn't go down on you first, maybe she should. You don't have to climax but whatever she can do to 'prime the pump' could help you down the line.
 

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If you masturbate regularly, try not masturbating for a couple of days before having sex with your chick. This will make you hornier and is a good start.

Discuss about it with your girl, so you both feel at ease with it.

Then try again and again, until you manage to get off. For every "failure" do not get upset and do not give up. Always think that next time you WILL get off. Visualize it too, before meeting your girl.

When you've done it once, you have finally thought your body how to behave in that situation, and the next times it will be easier and easier.

I speak from experience, as i had the same problem as you.
 

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SuperGigaloDJ: I'm horny as **** when I'm ready, problem is I'm thinking too much.

Francisco d'Anconia: See, even when she does go down on my, I don't climax. My cawk is just way too tough, however wrong that may sound it's true. But I think I'll have her go down on me first to get my juices flowing.

flyinshark: Yeah, I had the same idea, quit masturbating for sometime, it's just a test of will anyway.
I speak from experience, as i had the same problem as you.
It's a ***** ain't it...

Thanks for the quick advice guys. I'll keep you posted.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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familyguyfan

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Another thing:

If you're having sex with a condom on and you haven't done it much in the past it could be that you're not used to wearing one and getting off. The trick for that is to try masturbating with a condom on to try and get yourself used to it.
 
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