"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright, I have this hot 24 year old chick I've been banging. She just got her masters degree and let me pop her anal cherry. She's cool as sh!t. But she will not let me bang her without a condom (I respect this).

My problem is that no matter how 'hard' I try, I cannot ever cvm with a condom on. She doesn't want to use the pill because it messes with her hormones and 'hurts' according to her. I'm really into her and love banging the hell out of her but occasionally I'd like to bust a nut naturally.

Any suggestions here? I've tried every conceivable way to try and convince her to let me nail her bareback but she's just not letting me in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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According to porn, your suppose to come in her mouth. Standard Procedure. :rock:
 
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WhitePimp said:
But she will not let me bang her without a condom (I respect this).
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I've tried every conceivable way to try and convince her to let me nail her bareback but she's just not letting me in.
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Um, clearly you DON'T respect her choice. Is it so selfish that she doesn't want to catch AIDS or get pregnant?

Just use a sensi-thin condom, or take a page from porn: shag the hell out of her, then have her blow you or something to get you off. It's not rocket science.
 
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Um, clearly you DON'T respect her choice. Is it so selfish that she doesn't want to catch AIDS or get pregnant?

Just use a sensi-thin condom, or take a page from porn: shag the hell out of her, then have her blow you or something to get you off. It's not rocket science.
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Having her blow you doesn't always work after wearing a condom...especially if you get one of the latex ones with spermicide. She isn't going to want that crap in her mouth.

What about one of those Trojan fire-n-ice deals or something?
 
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Having her blow you doesn't always work after wearing a condom...especially if you get one of the latex ones with spermicide. She isn't going to want that crap in her mouth.

What about one of those Trojan fire-n-ice deals or something?
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lol true, I didn't think about that one. I've never used the spermicide kind, but I've never had an issue when it came to using the various other types. Guess I've been lucky :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Face it, her IL is not high. If she was into you she would let you do it.
 
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Dear Bluntmaster,
Have you thought,she might be protecting him?
 
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SO, you want to knock her up and pay for it for 18 years[child support]?She's doing you a favor and you aren't bright enough to realize it. MOST women would agree to it in an attempt to trap you into marriage
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SO, you want to knock her up and pay for it for 18 years[child support]?She's doing you a favor and you aren't bright enough to realize it. MOST women would agree to it in an attempt to trap you into marriage
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Exactly. Most women would do it because they are so into you they would be glad to let you raw dog.

Her refusal means she doesn't want him to knock her up. She is probably getting raw dogged by her A guy.
 
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I'm not bitter. I banged my girl raw last night. It was stupid as hell and now I'm a little worried, but I didn't bust in her. I didn't bust at all so I doubt she is preggo.

I'm just stating the truth. Would she tell Brad Pitt he can't bust in her?

Do you find reality is bitter? Too bad for you.
 
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Bluntmaster said:
I'm not bitter. I banged my girl raw last night. It was stupid as hell and now I'm a little worried, but I didn't bust in her. I didn't bust at all so I doubt she is preggo.

I'm just stating the truth. Would she tell Brad Pitt he can't bust in her?

Do you find reality is bitter? Too bad for you.
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This won't make you feel better, but it takes just one little accidental dribble...pre-*** or whatever, and then presto! a little Bluntminor on your hands..
 
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Guess you're gonna have to wait till marriage champ. Or, find a sluvt who will let you shoot anywhere. Life is not like pornos.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhitePimp said:
Alright, I have this hot 24 year old chick I've been banging. She just got her masters degree and let me pop her anal cherry. She's cool as sh!t. But she will not let me bang her without a condom (I respect this).

My problem is that no matter how 'hard' I try, I cannot ever cvm with a condom on. She doesn't want to use the pill because it messes with her hormones and 'hurts' according to her. I'm really into her and love banging the hell out of her but occasionally I'd like to bust a nut naturally.

Any suggestions here? I've tried every conceivable way to try and convince her to let me nail her bareback but she's just not letting me in.
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Smart girl... Its scary how many girls are cool w/ barebacking. I'm not a huge fan of condoms either, but the only place you probably shouldn't be using a condom is in a committed monogamous exclusive relationship. Back when I was a whoore I had psychological issues w/ busting a nut in a girl, even w/ a condom, as I was deathly scared of getting a bizatch pregnant. I'd always finish ON her rather than IN her. Girls were totally cool with this.

So just whip it out when you're ready to finish and unload on her face. Just avoid getting it in her eyes! :D
 
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Bluntmaster said:
Her refusal means she doesn't want him to knock her up. She is probably getting raw dogged by her A guy.
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Her refusal might be due to a number of reasons. Drawing a conclusion like this, and insisting on it as if it's a fact is just "bitter" as has been pointed out to you.

Yes, she might insist on condoms even if she were to sleep with Brad Pitt, you have incomplete information and your argument here is really weak.
 
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This won't make you feel better, but it takes just one little accidental dribble...pre-*** or whatever, and then presto! a little Bluntminor on your hands..
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Yes I know it's still possible. It was close to her ovulating time too and she is religious and won't even consider taking the morning after pill.

Oh well it will be daddy time then.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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