"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Never thought I'll say this, but sex is boring at the moment. I can have it right now for money. I can have it tomorrow without money. What I really lone for is an LTR. Long term relationship. Someone to have by my side to sleep with me, and I'm not even talking sex every night. If I'm going to pick up that phone right now and call a pro, it's not going to be for sex.

It all started two and a half months ago. I was sitting a ways from city and all lonely, I dressed, wasn't even washed, and drove and found a prostitute. She was really nice from Ukrain, 19 years old, I got her number. I'd call her, and a week went by, I went to see her again, and this time I took her with me home, told her come on, you can work here, or you can go with and live with me for a bit, at least you'd have a positive experience in this city. She went. We had some nice sex on the back seat of my car, unprotected. Then I met her friend, Lila, and I took her home, and we had sex. Then I met online a chick, and we had sex on our first date, unprotected. Then I met another chick, fvck the names at this point, she game me blow job. Then I had several dates with two different women, we didn't have sex. Then another prostitute, I got her number and was going to take her with my friend and his gf for some outdoor fun, she didn't answer. Then some more of this. This are the tales, the freaky tales. End result, I don't want sex. I never gotten what I was after, a girl that loves me.

The minute God closes the door, he opens up another one, and we often don't see it, cuz we left staring at the closed door. I live by this rule and it helped me a lot!

I want a girl friend!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maybe she should upgrade to a bigger strap-on
 

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I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
You're still paying, just with time, effort, gas money, drama, manipulation etc.

The guys that pay directly just get the object of the game (sex) and go home. No phone calls, no "you come here often"...boom, done.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
Not every guy is into large black women though.

If you tell me that Atlanta is loaded with hot young broads I am going to laugh so hard. :p I'm waiting. Say it.
 

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Ltr is not all it's cracked up to be. We always want what we don't have because we never see the negatives when we dream about it. Enjoy yourself when you're single and bang lots of ladies. When you do have a ltr, enjoy yourself at that stage as well. Don't waste time on regret. But do put on protection with pros.
 

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To RHCP: I don't know what kind of non-profit females you are dealing with but when I mess with females I make sure they have something going for themselves. When they have something going for themselves they will do things for you. (Such as cook, clean, etc)

To BigJimbo: Atlanta, Dallas, L.A., New York, Miami are the capital for beautiful woman in the U.S.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself.

x2

And for f<ck's sake wear a f<cking condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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There's nothing wrong with having sex with a prostitute. Let me repeat: There's nothing wrong with having sex with a prostitute. I know I will someday, I want the experience. But having sex with multiple prostitutes seems physically unhealthy (especially if you're not wearing a condom). More than that though, it is unhealthy mentally. Think about it, we could all get prostitutes, we could all get 5 prostitutes a day and never worry about "game" again. But isn't that the fun part!? Isn't the game what drives you? I know I've only started learning about the game 2 years ago, but I'm in love with it, and I also hate it! I've improved myself in so many ways, had so many good experiences, and even more that made me want to give up! But that's what it is about, a love for the game and a drive that will never quit!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigJimbo said:
Not every guy is into large black women though.

If you tell me that Atlanta is loaded with hot young broads I am going to laugh so hard. :p I'm waiting. Say it.

You and your trolling. I see that you're at again. :rolleyes:
 

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Didn't mean to put toronto, meant to put Miami. haha
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here's little tip I picked up...

If you hit the prostitutes with your car, you can get your money back. ;)


But seriously, I've started to find the novelty of meaningless sex is wearing off. It's so much better if you have some degree of emotional connection with the girl, you can look into her eyes and enjoy the general intimacy of the experience.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
To RHCP: I don't know what kind of non-profit females you are dealing with but when I mess with females I make sure they have something going for themselves. When they have something going for themselves they will do things for you. (Such as cook, clean, etc)

To BigJimbo: Atlanta, Dallas, L.A., New York, Miami are the capital for beautiful woman in the U.S.
I'm saying that unless you just have random women showing up at your place, immediately having sex and leaving after, you're paying for sex by investing time and energy in the seduction process.
 
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Boring sex is better than no sex
I couldn't disagree anymore with this statement, if I tried. Good sex is worth having, boring sex isn't. I'd rather drop my pants and masturbate then have boring sex. If a woman won't feed my sexual appetite then she is getting booted out of my bedroom and my life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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