"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never thought I'll say this, but sex is boring at the moment. I can have it right now for money. I can have it tomorrow without money. What I really lone for is an LTR. Long term relationship. Someone to have by my side to sleep with me, and I'm not even talking sex every night. If I'm going to pick up that phone right now and call a pro, it's not going to be for sex.

It all started two and a half months ago. I was sitting a ways from city and all lonely, I dressed, wasn't even washed, and drove and found a prostitute. She was really nice from Ukrain, 19 years old, I got her number. I'd call her, and a week went by, I went to see her again, and this time I took her with me home, told her come on, you can work here, or you can go with and live with me for a bit, at least you'd have a positive experience in this city. She went. We had some nice sex on the back seat of my car, unprotected. Then I met her friend, Lila, and I took her home, and we had sex. Then I met online a chick, and we had sex on our first date, unprotected. Then I met another chick, fvck the names at this point, she game me blow job. Then I had several dates with two different women, we didn't have sex. Then another prostitute, I got her number and was going to take her with my friend and his gf for some outdoor fun, she didn't answer. Then some more of this. This are the tales, the freaky tales. End result, I don't want sex. I never gotten what I was after, a girl that loves me.

The minute God closes the door, he opens up another one, and we often don't see it, cuz we left staring at the closed door. I live by this rule and it helped me a lot!

I want a girl friend!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Maybe she should upgrade to a bigger strap-on
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
You're still paying, just with time, effort, gas money, drama, manipulation etc.

The guys that pay directly just get the object of the game (sex) and go home. No phone calls, no "you come here often"...boom, done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I thank God everyday that I can get sex with decent girls without having to resort to prostitutes and tricking off money. To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself. Noone is perfect which means that there is always room for improvement. Improve yourself and the chicks you deal with will upgrade automatically.
Not every guy is into large black women though.

If you tell me that Atlanta is loaded with hot young broads I am going to laugh so hard. :p I'm waiting. Say it.
 

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Ltr is not all it's cracked up to be. We always want what we don't have because we never see the negatives when we dream about it. Enjoy yourself when you're single and bang lots of ladies. When you do have a ltr, enjoy yourself at that stage as well. Don't waste time on regret. But do put on protection with pros.
 

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To RHCP: I don't know what kind of non-profit females you are dealing with but when I mess with females I make sure they have something going for themselves. When they have something going for themselves they will do things for you. (Such as cook, clean, etc)

To BigJimbo: Atlanta, Dallas, L.A., New York, Miami are the capital for beautiful woman in the U.S.
 
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PrettyBoyAJ said:
To the guys here that do that, however, I have some advise for you and that is to just improve yourself.

x2

And for f<ck's sake wear a f<cking condom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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There's nothing wrong with having sex with a prostitute. Let me repeat: There's nothing wrong with having sex with a prostitute. I know I will someday, I want the experience. But having sex with multiple prostitutes seems physically unhealthy (especially if you're not wearing a condom). More than that though, it is unhealthy mentally. Think about it, we could all get prostitutes, we could all get 5 prostitutes a day and never worry about "game" again. But isn't that the fun part!? Isn't the game what drives you? I know I've only started learning about the game 2 years ago, but I'm in love with it, and I also hate it! I've improved myself in so many ways, had so many good experiences, and even more that made me want to give up! But that's what it is about, a love for the game and a drive that will never quit!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BigJimbo said:
Not every guy is into large black women though.

If you tell me that Atlanta is loaded with hot young broads I am going to laugh so hard. :p I'm waiting. Say it.

You and your trolling. I see that you're at again. :rolleyes:
 

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Didn't mean to put toronto, meant to put Miami. haha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Here's little tip I picked up...

If you hit the prostitutes with your car, you can get your money back. ;)


But seriously, I've started to find the novelty of meaningless sex is wearing off. It's so much better if you have some degree of emotional connection with the girl, you can look into her eyes and enjoy the general intimacy of the experience.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
To RHCP: I don't know what kind of non-profit females you are dealing with but when I mess with females I make sure they have something going for themselves. When they have something going for themselves they will do things for you. (Such as cook, clean, etc)

To BigJimbo: Atlanta, Dallas, L.A., New York, Miami are the capital for beautiful woman in the U.S.
I'm saying that unless you just have random women showing up at your place, immediately having sex and leaving after, you're paying for sex by investing time and energy in the seduction process.
 
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Boring sex is better than no sex
I couldn't disagree anymore with this statement, if I tried. Good sex is worth having, boring sex isn't. I'd rather drop my pants and masturbate then have boring sex. If a woman won't feed my sexual appetite then she is getting booted out of my bedroom and my life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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