"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sex is better in a relationship

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whistler

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Agree? Disagree?

When I say relationship, I mean where you at least care for the girl.

For me this has always been the case. I'm not saying the emotional baggage that comes with an emotional connection with a girl is always fun. But the sex is definitely better.

If your goal is great sex, you might consider serial monogamy instead of rotating through a bunch of f*ck buddies.

(I realize a lot of guys on this site probably don't yet have the luxury of choosing between those paths... hang in there ;) )
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Meh, it's purely subjective. Personally I've had a few LTR's that lasted longer than a year, and a few one night stands. As far as the sex goes, to me it was just sex.

If the time was right, and the girl was really into it, then the sex was great!
 
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not always true.

theres great relationship sexO and bad relationship sexO
theres great fling sexO and bad fling sexO
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks for your comments.

I mean generally though.

Obviously there are exceptions. I can think of a few occassions myself.

Keep your options open, sure...

But am I wrong here?

Spinning 20 plates is a measure of insurance if you're not likely to land anything you can rely on.

But if you can, why not conserve your energy and aim for (again, my opinion) more satisfying sex?
 
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The best sex I had was with my girlfriend's best friend, but I agree that it wasn't as spiritual or satisfying as sex with my girlfriend, but it was definitely better.
 
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