"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sex is better in a relationship

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Agree? Disagree?

When I say relationship, I mean where you at least care for the girl.

For me this has always been the case. I'm not saying the emotional baggage that comes with an emotional connection with a girl is always fun. But the sex is definitely better.

If your goal is great sex, you might consider serial monogamy instead of rotating through a bunch of f*ck buddies.

(I realize a lot of guys on this site probably don't yet have the luxury of choosing between those paths... hang in there ;) )
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Meh, it's purely subjective. Personally I've had a few LTR's that lasted longer than a year, and a few one night stands. As far as the sex goes, to me it was just sex.

If the time was right, and the girl was really into it, then the sex was great!
 
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not always true.

theres great relationship sexO and bad relationship sexO
theres great fling sexO and bad fling sexO
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks for your comments.

I mean generally though.

Obviously there are exceptions. I can think of a few occassions myself.

Keep your options open, sure...

But am I wrong here?

Spinning 20 plates is a measure of insurance if you're not likely to land anything you can rely on.

But if you can, why not conserve your energy and aim for (again, my opinion) more satisfying sex?
 
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The best sex I had was with my girlfriend's best friend, but I agree that it wasn't as spiritual or satisfying as sex with my girlfriend, but it was definitely better.
 
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