"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Sex - how to get REALLY good?

jago25_98

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2004
Messages
80
Reaction score
0
Location
uk
Hi guys.
I haven't posted in ages as am in LTR.

Sex got drab lately because not using a condom anymore, and I *** really quickly that way.

But for some strange reason I was able to go for ages the other day. Great sex.

The way she treated me afterwards was markedly different.

Now, this has made me realize how important sex is.

I want to be very good all the time.

Thing is, sex books generally tend to be a bit crap really. Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha. What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

In my opinion these books should be talking about attitude. How to develop the right attitude to be hot in bed. For example, dominant, yet caring. When to be gentle, how to build it up. How hard can you go etc etc. How not to ***, ways of fixing that like condoms, just keep going, stop, run out of juice etc. Then fantasies and so forth. See what I'm saying? There's got to be something good on this subject.

Is there somewhere I can travel to get live lessons?
DVDs I can buy?
Stuff to try?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,578
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha.

That depends on what you say. Call her some dirty names in the heat of the moment.

What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

Do you see the contradiction? Being tied up is submissive, but initiating an activity is dom. Don't wait for her to offer. Just do it!
 
Top