Sex - how to get REALLY good?

[jago25_98]

Hi guys.
I haven't posted in ages as am in LTR.

Sex got drab lately because not using a condom anymore, and I *** really quickly that way.

But for some strange reason I was able to go for ages the other day. Great sex.

The way she treated me afterwards was markedly different.

Now, this has made me realize how important sex is.

I want to be very good all the time.

Thing is, sex books generally tend to be a bit crap really. Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha. What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

In my opinion these books should be talking about attitude. How to develop the right attitude to be hot in bed. For example, dominant, yet caring. When to be gentle, how to build it up. How hard can you go etc etc. How not to ***, ways of fixing that like condoms, just keep going, stop, run out of juice etc. Then fantasies and so forth. See what I'm saying? There's got to be something good on this subject.

Is there somewhere I can travel to get live lessons?
DVDs I can buy?
Stuff to try?

 

[Impact]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128591
Take a look at the posts for the 5th week.

 

[Desdinova]

Here you go:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16888

Moved to AE.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha.

That depends on what you say. Call her some dirty names in the heat of the moment.

What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

Do you see the contradiction? Being tied up is submissive, but initiating an activity is dom. Don't wait for her to offer. Just do it!