"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sex - how to get REALLY good?

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jago25_98

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Hi guys.
I haven't posted in ages as am in LTR.

Sex got drab lately because not using a condom anymore, and I *** really quickly that way.

But for some strange reason I was able to go for ages the other day. Great sex.

The way she treated me afterwards was markedly different.

Now, this has made me realize how important sex is.

I want to be very good all the time.

Thing is, sex books generally tend to be a bit crap really. Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha. What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

In my opinion these books should be talking about attitude. How to develop the right attitude to be hot in bed. For example, dominant, yet caring. When to be gentle, how to build it up. How hard can you go etc etc. How not to ***, ways of fixing that like condoms, just keep going, stop, run out of juice etc. Then fantasies and so forth. See what I'm saying? There's got to be something good on this subject.

Is there somewhere I can travel to get live lessons?
DVDs I can buy?
Stuff to try?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

Bible_Belt

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Going on about `talking to your partner` etc etc. It's not alpha.

That depends on what you say. Call her some dirty names in the heat of the moment.

What I'm looking for is to be so good she'll offer to be tied up etc.

Do you see the contradiction? Being tied up is submissive, but initiating an activity is dom. Don't wait for her to offer. Just do it!
 
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