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Sex for provider vs lover

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That is why you always are straight forward and let it be known you wanna bang her right off the bat. No dates and fun playing around. You let your intention be known and if she "sees you that way", she will open up and do everything.

Lovers instill in a woman passion without them even talking. It could start by her listening to you speak to other people about sth completely non sexual. It could be that you're smart and can articulate yourself so good it turns her on. And she will give you a chance one way or another then. They know who makes them wet right away, who gives them tension.

On the other hand, they make the possible provider wait, he goes through date after date, sex is always a "taboo" with him, she wants to act the good, shy girl while she dreams of Chad shoving it in her arse and her telling him she is his dirty little wh0re.

Anyways, you have to be naive to expect to provide nothing and get something in return. You always provide sth. It could be excitement, it could be pleasure, intrigue, affection, etc. To think you have to provide nothing and get sth is to be worse than women in this aspect LOL
 

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But, what if "Chad" is her provider?
Isnt that what they all hope for. Then they get frustrated if they cant make chad bend to their will and if chad does bend then its looking for a new chad because the passion is gone.

You always provide sth.
True but sooner or later they are gonna expect more and more.


There's a joke about women. Link. Sooner or later chad is also gonna become a beta bux.
 

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but what secks does the alpha get that the provider cant.
Let's say in her 20s she meets Steve, who's fun, exciting, uncontrollable, attractive and seem to know how to push the right buttons. She's crazy about him and let's him fvck her like there's no tomorrow until he dumps her and moves on. She's now been alpha widowed. He's on top of her "high score" list as Desdinova used to put it.
Now she's 30, feels the biological clock ticking and decides she wants to settle down and start a family, but Steve is nowhere to be seen and Tyrone doesn't answer her calls anymore, so what in the world to do now?
She sits down and has an 'epiphany', finally she sees the light, she's been blind all these years to Andy, who has a great salary, treats her well, never offends her, never interrupts her talk and opens doors for her, he's such a sweet and kind man. He'll be perfect.
Problem is, she just can't seem to want to fvck him the same way she did Steve. Sure she enjoys it but it isn't as fun. It feels more like a chore after a while.
Andy never got her best from the start. The poor fellow told his friends she's a 'good girl' who doesn't go down on him or does anal as her strict rule, but little did he know about her regular threesomes with Steve and Tyrone in the church back in the day.

The difference is arousal.
 
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Isnt that what they all hope for. Then they get frustrated if they cant make chad bend to their will and if chad does bend then its looking for a new chad because the passion is gone.



True but sooner or later they are gonna expect more and more.


There's a joke about women. Link. Sooner or later chad is also gonna become a beta bux.
'Chad' will never bend at her will or become 'beta bux'. That's impossible when he never makes women the focus of his life, he knows there are more important things in life, like himself.

In reality 'Chad' is dumping them when they become a pain in the a ss, yet the passion will always be there.

She will try to lock him down, she even loves that chase but he (usually) won't commit. Why would he? He knows women are flocking around him just waiting for a chance.
This is why women had to develop dual sexual strategies.
 

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What about locking down someone she was aroused by. Over time it would become stale and boring, wouldnt it?
Not necessarily. It depends upon HER personality. If she has a "ho" mindset, where they are always on the hunt for the next thing, or they want to be doing what their friends are gossiping about, then yes she would be looking elsewhere. Some personality types would be excited to be able to be fvcked by Chad nightly and proud of him.
 
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In the mouth. Alpha sex she doesn't have a choice. He sprays were he likes
Will she struggle to figure out how to deep throat him, since he likes it? Even though she never saw the big deal before or could never do it right?
 

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Will she struggle to figure out how to deep throat him, since he likes it? Even though she never saw the big deal before or could never do it right?
Ask biggoal or big Dave. They probably know.
When it comes to sex i do what i want to her until she says stop or no. Then i stop and look for the next no or stop. Lol
 
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