"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sex Drive is LOW and CRAMPING LEGS

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So here I am, spring time again. Snow has melted and the chickies are coming out to play. I met a good one this time and I've known her since middle school so I really want to rock her.

Last weekend we banged until the sun came up. It's been a while since I've done that. She is attractive and lets me do whatever I want to her.

A common complaint that I hear and heard from her yesterday is that I didn't bang her in the morning before I left my house for church (I go every Sunday and so does she).

So we did have sex Friday night, all night through Saturday morning until I went to work. Then again Saturday night. But not Sunday morning because I didn't even think of it. That's the thing, I don't really have a desire to have sex. I never used to be that way but I have certainly trended this direction for no apparent reason.

I also cramp up in my legs especially when I am on top (and this position is what they prefer for some reason). I can and do pound the water down, use an expensive magnesium spray. Bananas and potassium don't do chit for me. Stretching out doesn't prevent the leg cramps either.

So, as I am banging, I am worrying about my legs locking up. Sucks big time.

I workout to Beachbody programs almost every day and have for over 5 years now.

I have also heard of red colored foods helping in the sex department.

She is coming over again Saturday night. I would like to have some ideas already in motion. She is giving me her sexual best and I am not even thinking about that which is weird to me.

Any help would be appreciated.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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didn't see mention of creatine to retain water in your muscles.

daily dose of maca and dhea with a keto diet will increase T.
 

glass half full

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Sex drive is low/cramping legs-

Not sure if this works for you, but sure does for me...Smoke some good weed. lmao...
relaxes my legs/makes em twitch from relaxation. And horny as all hell when I'm alone!
Thankfully, not in public settings lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So is the expectation that you have sex most waking moments when you're together? That's likely not sustainable. Did you just rekindle? If so this is probably temporary, in which case, enjoy while you can.

If your legs are cramping because you're in an uncomfortable position for too long, have her do more work or suggest she get on top.
 

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So we did have sex Friday night, all night through Saturday morning until I went to work. Then again Saturday night. But not Sunday morning because I didn't even think of it. That's the thing, I don't really have a desire to have sex. I never used to be that way but I have certainly trended this direction for no apparent reason.
I'd be exhausted of I had that much sex in such a short time, probably cramping legs too. This doesn't seem odd to me at all. There is such as thing as getting enough. I wouldn't call this a low sex drive...
 
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