"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sex...dirty, nasty, evil, perverted sex

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that's where the word "chemistry" comes from. your sexuality.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squirrels said:
The sexual urges we have, the desire to mate, is one of the strongest in the human psyche. It isn't something logical or rational at all. It's hard-wired into us.

Society realized that these urges were not rationally controllable. So they did their best to restrain and suppress them. First through religion....

(Styles:I've experienced direct opposition in a preacher who asked me if I was saved, since one of his Catholic school girls was coming onto me in front of him)
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And I thought I was being original...:yawn:
 
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Babnik said:
I don't agree that we all taught like this!

First of all, there are reasons to suppress sexuality or else we wouldn't do it.

There is a reason for religion, morals, and other things. Human beings DO have higher self-actualization priorities that go beyond the scope of instincts.

However, I think only few parents do the "Don't have sex!" thing!

Mine never did this. My mom urges me to get a STABLE long-term partner and have sex with her. She doesn't want me to get diseases and AIDS and is against having sex with MANY different women. Maybe 3-4 at max which is really fine with me.

Neither of my friends' parents teach their kids NOT to have sex.
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Religion and morals are piss poor reasons for doing (or not doing) something. Religion is make-believe, and what your morals are is up to you - If I enjoy something and it doesn't hurt anyone else then why shouldn't I do it?

If precautions are taken then STDs are no reason not to have lots of sex with many different women. Do you avoid crossing the street because there is a chance you'll get hit by a bus, or do you take precautions to reduce the chances of being hit by a bus to nearly zero when you cross the street?

Now, if you'll excuse me... I'm going to go cross the street (and then get laid).
 
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