"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sex...dirty, nasty, evil, perverted sex

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that's where the word "chemistry" comes from. your sexuality.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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squirrels said:
The sexual urges we have, the desire to mate, is one of the strongest in the human psyche. It isn't something logical or rational at all. It's hard-wired into us.

Society realized that these urges were not rationally controllable. So they did their best to restrain and suppress them. First through religion....

(Styles:I've experienced direct opposition in a preacher who asked me if I was saved, since one of his Catholic school girls was coming onto me in front of him)
And I thought I was being original...:yawn:
 

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Babnik said:
I don't agree that we all taught like this!

First of all, there are reasons to suppress sexuality or else we wouldn't do it.

There is a reason for religion, morals, and other things. Human beings DO have higher self-actualization priorities that go beyond the scope of instincts.

However, I think only few parents do the "Don't have sex!" thing!

Mine never did this. My mom urges me to get a STABLE long-term partner and have sex with her. She doesn't want me to get diseases and AIDS and is against having sex with MANY different women. Maybe 3-4 at max which is really fine with me.

Neither of my friends' parents teach their kids NOT to have sex.
Religion and morals are piss poor reasons for doing (or not doing) something. Religion is make-believe, and what your morals are is up to you - If I enjoy something and it doesn't hurt anyone else then why shouldn't I do it?

If precautions are taken then STDs are no reason not to have lots of sex with many different women. Do you avoid crossing the street because there is a chance you'll get hit by a bus, or do you take precautions to reduce the chances of being hit by a bus to nearly zero when you cross the street?

Now, if you'll excuse me... I'm going to go cross the street (and then get laid).
 
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