You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How's your puzzy rate as a result?I was Leo most of my life, now at 40 I am becoming Sam, it never was so easy to be Sam
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What was Sam's game other than being sexy and not giving a eff?Leo is actually a better man that SAm, successful property investor vs. failed actor.
But hey its the guy with better game that "wins" (or gets the poomps to be precise)//
I like these stories lets analyze another one....
Girls say this all the time .. "a good sore" after a rough fvck session .. whether anal pvssy or whateverOne more thing: She says she was sore from the anal sex, but it was "a good sore". The only time I've ever heard the expression "a good sore" is in relation to working out, I've never heard it applied to anal sex before. I guess she's happy that it's getting opened up back there.
Isn't it awesome like another puszy in her throat?I gave a "good sore" to a girl the other night. She had to go to her doctor. Turns out my penis injured her throat. She has no gag reflex so she can take it pretty deep in her mouth. She was totally ok with it. Its like I scored bonus points.
I gave a "good sore" to a girl the other night. She had to go to her doctor. Turns out my penis injured her throat. She has no gag reflex so she can take it pretty deep in her mouth. She was totally ok with it. Its like I scored bonus points.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That’s why when I hear these guys talk about women hitting the wall, nobody wants them, they are looking to settle, I can’t help but laugh. They are delusional. These are the same guys who decide to settle down with a woman thinking that she is done with the **** carousel. She is just taking a break from the ride my friend. Women who have had 100 ****s in them when they’re in their twenties will have another 100 in their 30’s and 40’s. Use this to your advantage.Being a diary most likely the author took some liberty with the actual facts, embellishing and minimizing ...
But the message is clear, all the guys who come to this forum to complain about middle age women wanting to ride the carousel instead of setlling are correct.
Ding ding ding, weoooo weooooo weoooooo! .... This is AttackFormation reporting a code red, I repeat code red in the dating game - we've got a sucker sighted trying to be friends first with a woman. We need immediate red pill support. Deploy the rational male.I resume talking to a guy that I’ve been chatting with off and on for a few weeks.
"waiting a week" is not a hard fast ruleLeo could have possibly gotten laid that night if he acted. She seemed horny as fack. She wanted Sam but would have settled for a bang from Leo. What you should take away from this story is to ALWAYS bang the woman really good. She should be left thinking of you for days. I have had this experience as well, where women have told me that they couldnt stop thinking about the sex we had a few days ago.
I also find interesting how after Day 4, she couldnt wait for Sam to become available, she looked for a new dude to put out the fire in her pants. I am starting to question, the waiting a whole week to see her again thing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can hit it several times a week, but it's to your advantage that she "needs" your cawk ."waiting a week" is not a hard fast rule
you give the chick several days to breathe .. if she likes you enough she'll usually be the first one to reach out
nothing in this author's diary contradicts doing just that for the best results