"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sex but no serious touching?

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guitaronfire411

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So my girl and I have been together for over 3 years. We have had our rough patches but the last 2-3 weeks she was getting very angry and we broke up twice. I was being kind of harsh and she is quite sensitive so she quickly dropped the ball. She wanted to go back to being in a regular relationship but I insisted that if we were to forgive each other and be sexual, we would stay engaged and that was that. Otherwise, I told her, I saw there being no point in being friends.

Anyways, the silence between us only lasted 2 days before I took my nice 46" TV back and she wanted to reconcile after her work that day. The previous fight only lasted a single day but she removed me from Facebook.

The second time and most recent time, I went over there just to get my stuff but she very clearly still loved me because she was quite angry. We talked for about 20 minutes, she more crying than angry, and we sat down and chilled. No make-up sex but I got lots of kino and kissing so it was good gradual escalation.

Last night I was able to touch her body all over. I went for the breasts and was denied since she wasn't feeling too good. (She has highly sensitive breasts.) Anyways, after a while of watching TV and getting amazing kino, she walked into the other room and we had sex for the first time in a week or so, after all of the fighting, etc. She asked me if I'd 'gone' and then if I felt better and I said that it felt good.

Fast track to this morning. More full-body kino but yet still nothing when I attempted to touch her breasts.

Should I keep attempting breast kino? A few days ago she let me touch breasts+***** while watching TV so I'm thinking its her body that is making her uncomfortable instead of me.

Your thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is the most backwards thread I ever seen
 
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I don't get what all the fuss about the boobs is about? Like she let you F@ck her right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what is wrong with you? smh lol. you smashed but are making a thread asking why she wont let you touch her breasts?
 
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Here he gets laid and is worried about touching her breasts. Think of it as this way, you want to keep going through this each time you try to have sex with her and put up with her crappy behavior? It's not going to get any better with her and you will be miserable the longer you stay on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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