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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Sex, Bleeding...

lesmurphy

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So I picked up this girl last week and I hung out with her three times since I met her, last night I finally brought her to bed.

Everything was great, except after when I went to put on my boxers and she went to clean up in the bathroom I noticed my boxers were stained and it seemed to be blood. Then I looked at the bed, a few random spots here and there.

So when she came out we talked for a minute and she said that that is really wierd because she only get a cycle like three times a year and very embarassed over it.

So she left and I went to bed, I woke up with a text from her saying how sorry she was about it and some stains on my bed. I don't really have any intention on dating her exclusivley ... although she seems to be ... So what should my next move be? Contact her soon, later, whenever? Should I bring it up?

Any advice on not being exclusive, without coming off as an ass.hole?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ER!C L!VE

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Being exclusive? You're jumping the gun a bit. You're not exclusive if you just bang a chick. In my world I verbalize that I want to be exclusive with her - I can tell when a girl wants me and only me. Just make it known that you're dating other girls. If she blows up about it, tell her that you're not exclusive and you're just seeing each other. If she can't handle that, then she can hit the road. This is another thing you don't need to bring up, unless she asks you about the status of your relationship is or your intentions with her.

dude, I've had girls bleed on me so many times during one night stands. Don't worry about it or over think it. Really, there isn't a need to bring it up. If she wants to talk about it, just blow it off like it wasn't a big deal (because it really isn't!).

Sheet, I was in a 5 year relationship and banging her while she was bleeding was no biggie. Just put a dark colored towel down first ;)
:cheer:
 

lesmurphy

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No, she was not on her period, it was more of a light bleed I guess, I would not have fvucked her for the first time if she was on the rag. I have had gfs in the past and delt with the bleeding, just not one nighters ... your right it really is not a big deal.

Yah and as far as being exclusive, thats where I have fvcked up in the past, your completelty right about jumping the gun. I plan on dating other girls, this is my choice not hers.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
yuck, Eric, us civilized people do it in the shower when the chick is bleeding.

(lol)
And we only go down on here when she'd not on her peak flow days.
 

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