"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sex, Bleeding...

lesmurphy

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So I picked up this girl last week and I hung out with her three times since I met her, last night I finally brought her to bed.

Everything was great, except after when I went to put on my boxers and she went to clean up in the bathroom I noticed my boxers were stained and it seemed to be blood. Then I looked at the bed, a few random spots here and there.

So when she came out we talked for a minute and she said that that is really wierd because she only get a cycle like three times a year and very embarassed over it.

So she left and I went to bed, I woke up with a text from her saying how sorry she was about it and some stains on my bed. I don't really have any intention on dating her exclusivley ... although she seems to be ... So what should my next move be? Contact her soon, later, whenever? Should I bring it up?

Any advice on not being exclusive, without coming off as an ass.hole?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ER!C L!VE

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Being exclusive? You're jumping the gun a bit. You're not exclusive if you just bang a chick. In my world I verbalize that I want to be exclusive with her - I can tell when a girl wants me and only me. Just make it known that you're dating other girls. If she blows up about it, tell her that you're not exclusive and you're just seeing each other. If she can't handle that, then she can hit the road. This is another thing you don't need to bring up, unless she asks you about the status of your relationship is or your intentions with her.

dude, I've had girls bleed on me so many times during one night stands. Don't worry about it or over think it. Really, there isn't a need to bring it up. If she wants to talk about it, just blow it off like it wasn't a big deal (because it really isn't!).

Sheet, I was in a 5 year relationship and banging her while she was bleeding was no biggie. Just put a dark colored towel down first ;)
:cheer:
 

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No, she was not on her period, it was more of a light bleed I guess, I would not have fvucked her for the first time if she was on the rag. I have had gfs in the past and delt with the bleeding, just not one nighters ... your right it really is not a big deal.

Yah and as far as being exclusive, thats where I have fvcked up in the past, your completelty right about jumping the gun. I plan on dating other girls, this is my choice not hers.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
yuck, Eric, us civilized people do it in the shower when the chick is bleeding.

(lol)
And we only go down on here when she'd not on her peak flow days.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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