i'm not really use to girls coming over and hanging out to eat and watch movies. usually it was just come over for sex and go home. but tomorrow shes coming over and we decided to get some pizza, watch a movie, talk etc... should i lay on the sex before all that or after? i'm afraid if i wait till later on she might get tired and start getting ready to head off. how do you guys usually do these kind of nights?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sex before or after dinner/movie (at home)?
- Thread starter LoneWolf
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Let it flow naturally. DURING the movie should be easiest and best option.
5string
Master Don Juan
Appetizer....before dinner
Desert....after dinner
Step it up brother!
Desert....after dinner
Step it up brother!
lol, it never goes as planned does it? we did it after eating some pizza before the movie. i think it was good because i was tired after and watching a movie later was chill n relaxing. so the whole let it flow works i guess 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.