"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sex before or after dinner/movie (at home)?

LoneWolf

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i'm not really use to girls coming over and hanging out to eat and watch movies. usually it was just come over for sex and go home. but tomorrow shes coming over and we decided to get some pizza, watch a movie, talk etc... should i lay on the sex before all that or after? i'm afraid if i wait till later on she might get tired and start getting ready to head off. how do you guys usually do these kind of nights?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LoneWolf

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lol, it never goes as planned does it? we did it after eating some pizza before the movie. i think it was good because i was tired after and watching a movie later was chill n relaxing. so the whole let it flow works i guess :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ said:
Let it flow naturally. DURING the movie should be easiest and best option.

Agreed. Be patient. If a girl is coming over to "watch a movie".... this translates into: "guaranteed sex". Don't jump her bones when she steps through the door.
 
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