"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sex and the city?

hope7

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I always assumed that the TV show is crap and is probably the worst show for guys to get cues on masculinity. But I decided to watch two eps on TBS just to see what all the fus is about and it turns out that most/all the guys on the shows are alpha males. Most of the guys on the show follow a lot of the rules I follow from the DJ bible and the PUA society in general. Mr. Big is probably one of the best examples of a real DJ.

The TV show is marketed towards women, but it seems that they got one aspect down: the personalities of the 10% of the guys who do 90% of the ****ing.

Thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chinwaggler

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why did you watch it... the fuss? the fuss is about women that buy a lot of clothes
 

Effington

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The only cues you should be taking from that show are how women play games. You can try to overanalyze each character if you want, but I do not think that's a good use of time.
 

Crazy Asian

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u should watch failure to launch.
the girl in sex and the city plays the chick in that movie too.
the guy in it is an absolute DJ.
 
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