"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex and the city?

hope7

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I always assumed that the TV show is crap and is probably the worst show for guys to get cues on masculinity. But I decided to watch two eps on TBS just to see what all the fus is about and it turns out that most/all the guys on the shows are alpha males. Most of the guys on the show follow a lot of the rules I follow from the DJ bible and the PUA society in general. Mr. Big is probably one of the best examples of a real DJ.

The TV show is marketed towards women, but it seems that they got one aspect down: the personalities of the 10% of the guys who do 90% of the ****ing.

Thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chinwaggler

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why did you watch it... the fuss? the fuss is about women that buy a lot of clothes
 

Effington

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The only cues you should be taking from that show are how women play games. You can try to overanalyze each character if you want, but I do not think that's a good use of time.
 

Crazy Asian

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u should watch failure to launch.
the girl in sex and the city plays the chick in that movie too.
the guy in it is an absolute DJ.
 
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