Severe clash with one of my roommates. Help.

[smeckle]

Since moving out of my house, I'm living with three other guys. I've known two of them for about 6 years and one for only a few months.

I moved in while two of the roommates were in Iraq and they've since come back. I was never supposed to stay here, but it just has sort of worked out like that. I pay rent and do chores and all, so it's really just a matter of convenience for everyone involved.

I get along great with the two I've known for years, but the guy I've only just met and I really f ucking hate each other.

He made me give him my key last night (he was made because he didn't know I had one, "someone took his", he'd never made a copy of his, and the door was locked yesterday while no one was home). And I was on the phone taking a message from someone when he busts in and starts barking at me.

He asks me who's on the phone and I tell him to hold on a minute. He tells me that if I ever talk to him like that again, he'll throw me out.

So... how the f uck am I supposed to live with this ass hole?

I'd love some advice.

 

[musclyjerk]

Get hold of a Chainsaw and when he's sleeping at night, enter his room and start it up and slowly walk toward him.. [I may be joking about this, I certainly don't condone it]

There's not a lot you can do since you're not supposed to be there. Either try to have a proper talk with the guy and explain your circumstances to him to try and get him on-side or failing that make him think you're a total psycho who he shouldn't mess with.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[Macca]

Seems like the cvnt was waiting for an oppurtunity to have a pop at you! Move out! Or get him to move out - either way something has to give...

 

[hope7]

First, bring this up with the other two roomates, then all of you guys arrange a talk with teh 3rd dude. Let him know that the way he acted with unacceptable, and have your friends back you up. If you're friends don't back you up. . ..get outta there.

 

[pgbiswas79]

Yeah there is no use doing nething prematurely. As my friends above adviced u, first speak wid the other 2 guys abt this and then over a cup of coffee u all (include him too) can talk abt it like matured individuals . but also make sure u do this casually and dont show any signs of aggression.

u never know this **** is probably looking for a reason to start a fight wid u or he is just like tht.
Best of luck. if it doesnt work out u can always move out or show tht **** the door.

 

[Thugo]

Buy an AK47, Dress up like a muslim extremist, tape some wires to your chest, and barge in screaming while he's asleep. Scare his ass to death.

You said he was in Iraq right?

 

[selfmademob]

Buy an AK47, Dress up like a muslim extremist, tape some wires to your chest, and barge in screaming while he's asleep. Scare his ass to death.

You said he was in Iraq right?

dude, thats not even funny

 

[itishe]

dude, thats not even funny

I chuckled.

 

[pvf94]

I chuckled.

ditto

 

[Cod3r]

I chuckled.

Same


-Cod3r

 

[selfmademob]

well im actually going to iraq, thats why i didnt find it funny

 

[LA_Chico]

ur cool bro, but it was funny so you better laugh, dont take it so personal man

 

[Ice Cold]

well im actually going to iraq, thats why i didnt find it funny

it will be funny when u come back

 

[Phyzzle]

IF u come back.

 

[LA_Chico]

thats real nice bro

 

[pvf94]

IF u come back.

uncalled for

 

[Cancerian]

The fact that the dude was in Iraq could explain his attitude, depending on what he has seen and experienced while there.

 

[Cod3r]

IF u come back.

insensitive, but funny


-Cod3r