"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Setup with a girl and got another girls number

simple_wish

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I was setup by a friend this past weekend. We were to meet with a group of my and her friends.

She was totally opposite to me and I was not interested in her so I excused myself and sat down with another girl on the patio who happened to be sitting by herself.

The girl was friendly and we had a Great conversation (booze sure get's the edge off) and as I was to make my exit she said that we should get together. So she gave me her phone number...SCORE!

But being really busy with work I didn't call her until 3 days after we met I had no intentions calling her the next day. I got her VM and left her a message saying I was the guy she met on saturday and to give me a call....

She hasn't called..should I persue this girl? She's smokin hot it's just what the Dr ordered for me to get back on track?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good_ol_boy

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"She hasn't called..should I persue this girl?"

Uh, I don't know. Do you want to??
If not, don't bother.
 

simple_wish

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True..

Maybe one call and then it's done. No love gained none lost but i'm looking to build up more female friends as I cut most of them off when the ex and I split.
 

Ricky

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Don't expect a girl to call initially.

This is why I hate when you dont get a girl on the phone the first time.

I'd try again, but don't leave a message if you don't get her on the phone.
 

Aztec

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Try calling again few days after your initial call because things may happened why she hasn't or didn't call back. Not all non-return calls are rejections. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Nexting her after the first non-return call is not necessary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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simple_wish

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Thanks guys.

She ended up calling me last night and asked to meet up. I already had plans for the evening so I told her we'd have to reschedule.

We'll see how it goes.
 
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