She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wouldn't know, why don't you enlighten me as to what happened to him, and then get your head out of your rear and think of something for a date. Ice Cream isn't going to ruin your life you know.swaptrex said:ya, but remeber what happened to al pacino after asking a miami beauty for ice cream?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i'm lactose intolerant so yaa that would be fun......Docs said:I wouldn't know, why don't you enlighten me as to what happened to him, and then get your head out of your rear and think of something for a date. Ice Cream isn't going to ruin your life you know.
just turned 20 3 days ago, you take girls to the bar after you've got all the bull**** out of the way? seems like back-peddling, to many guys and things that could go wrong for me.... but in your favor you get to grind w/ them on the floor so that would be a start.PRMoon said:Are you 21? If so take her to a bar. That's where it all happens for me anyway.
Well, I'm sorry to hear that....get some Soy Cream then??swaptrex said:i'm lactose intolerant so yaa that would be fun......
al pacino got called a greaseball.