"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when you guys are trying to set something up with a girl you know is into you or that you have contact info on, what do you setup? for example, i saw that asking them out to dinner, etc. is a bad idea. so what do you do, i still live with my parents so that is limited as far as my house goes. i don't drink tea or coffee, so what are some other options?

great site!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ya, but remeber what happened to al pacino after asking a miami beauty for ice cream?
 

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Are you 21? If so take her to a bar. That's where it all happens for me anyway.
 

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swaptrex said:
ya, but remeber what happened to al pacino after asking a miami beauty for ice cream?
I wouldn't know, why don't you enlighten me as to what happened to him, and then get your head out of your rear and think of something for a date. Ice Cream isn't going to ruin your life you know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Docs said:
I wouldn't know, why don't you enlighten me as to what happened to him, and then get your head out of your rear and think of something for a date. Ice Cream isn't going to ruin your life you know.
i'm lactose intolerant so yaa that would be fun......

al pacino got called a greaseball.
 

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PRMoon said:
Are you 21? If so take her to a bar. That's where it all happens for me anyway.
just turned 20 3 days ago, you take girls to the bar after you've got all the bull**** out of the way? seems like back-peddling, to many guys and things that could go wrong for me.... but in your favor you get to grind w/ them on the floor so that would be a start.

keep some answers coming.
 

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swaptrex said:
i'm lactose intolerant so yaa that would be fun......

al pacino got called a greaseball.
Well, I'm sorry to hear that....get some Soy Cream then??
And, I don't know who Al is XD
 
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