"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theNEWDJ

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ok so im a pro at getting chicks numbers, i can get several numbers in any given night or day. Except i never know what to say when i call, i had a link a while ago that was like "setting up the date", if any one has that link could they send it to me, and what if i get an answering machine do i leave a message?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damian

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Good thing you said "SET UP" a date.

One of the great formulas that I use, is to invite her along. First, decide what you want to do, say ice skating or going to the movies. Then you call up a girl and you say something along the lines of: "Hey (name), my friends and i are gonna go to (wherever the hell you guys decide) at (time) and you're invited to come with us." Don't say "y'wanna go to the movies with me?", because that may make you sound like an AFC. Leave an open invitation, and act as if you would go whether or not she came along. If you get an answering machine just end it with something along the lines of: "Make sure you call me if you're coming, or you'll screw up the accomodations." so you can get a confirmation before you head out.

-Damian
 
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