"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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theNEWDJ

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ok so im a pro at getting chicks numbers, i can get several numbers in any given night or day. Except i never know what to say when i call, i had a link a while ago that was like "setting up the date", if any one has that link could they send it to me, and what if i get an answering machine do i leave a message?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damian

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Good thing you said "SET UP" a date.

One of the great formulas that I use, is to invite her along. First, decide what you want to do, say ice skating or going to the movies. Then you call up a girl and you say something along the lines of: "Hey (name), my friends and i are gonna go to (wherever the hell you guys decide) at (time) and you're invited to come with us." Don't say "y'wanna go to the movies with me?", because that may make you sound like an AFC. Leave an open invitation, and act as if you would go whether or not she came along. If you get an answering machine just end it with something along the lines of: "Make sure you call me if you're coming, or you'll screw up the accomodations." so you can get a confirmation before you head out.

-Damian
 
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