"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Setting up a private lounge, who would be interested?

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Francisco d'Anconia, Dimebag_Darrell and GS-83. You'll all get a PM when the forum is up and running.

Everyone else who has replied but have registered during the last year:

I probably won't let the forum be open for reading. This is because of the fact that I want to promote more FR's which would be hell of a lot easier if people knew only a handful of people could read it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by abbas
Francisco d'Anconia, Dimebag_Darrell and GS-83. You'll all get a PM when the forum is up and running.

Everyone else who has replied but have registered during the last year:

I probably won't let the forum be open for reading. This is because of the fact that I want to promote more FR's which would be hell of a lot easier if people knew only a handful of people could read it.
And truly no matter how many posts or how long you guys have been here. None of the sh*t you read on here is relevant unless you actually apply which is something I've found out the hard way and FRs are an exceptional way to track progress. And in truth I although I sarge almost every other day at least, and i'm fit for making an FR journal, there's too many interesting FRs on here to care about my own, he he. I really like the idea of another private lounge being created because maybe there more of the members actually are out taking action and striving to make progress rather than staying on the sidelines and acting like know it alls like the majority of the people on here do. Posting on this site or on this lounge would be better if it was like the idea of being involved in voting because if you arent taking action then you shouldn't be heard. I'm looking forward to this new project Abbas.
 

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im too bussy for this new age forum of yours, sheesh kids nowadays:mad: .

Im gonna go back in the Don juan Discussion forum and post 60 replies in an hour. The more I post the less I know:rolleyes:

:woo: if you make it so no one else can read, youll be doing a whole lot of work just so a few "Select" people can post, why dont you just do chats over Aim or Msn.

:crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dover and fender85: You're welcome when it's set up. You'll get a PM then.

Rawblood: That is right. I am putting in a lot of effort so that a few "selected" people can enjoy a higher-quality, non-KJ, forum and be free to post FR:s (knowing that only a few appropriate people will be able to read them)
 

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As long as you make it still avaible to view for everyone, so not only the ones who match your qualification can quality control the posts. Like me who hasn't been registered for long, but have been with this site since 2001.
 

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Sup, abbas. Sign me up when you can. I am almost a year here. That Allright?
 

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I posted as naoi deag se deag from (I think) 2003 to last month. Can I get a PM?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rapsta, wavejams007, seanchai: You are welcome.

Look at the post below.
 

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The forum is now set up. The location is: www.invitelounge.com

To get access to the forum you have to visit the website and register. Then you send me a PM here at sosuave letting me know your nick at Invitelounge and I will give you access to the actual forum there (the requirements are still the same: one year here at sosuave or ASF).

Now remember it is on us to do the best out of this forum. This forum is going to be for us by us, and unlike other forums around completely non-profit.

The forum is going to be kept completely private so only it's members can read the posts. Hopefully this will gain us some field reports. I know I for one will post more FR's since there wont be any privacy issues anymore.

So everybody who has been complaining about KJ's and few FR's around here. Join this forum and help build something good up. This forum is not ment to compete with the big ones in size, but more be something which will be kept at a high quality level for the few people who are it's members.

The people who sign up now and help to build this forum up will be granted access easier than people waiting a while to see if it will be a "success" and then applying.

Everyone who has signed up earlier will also get a PM about this. Check this thread regularly to see when new updates on forum access for people who have registered has been made.

/Abbas
 

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Hey man I sarge a bit. I've stopped the past two weeks as im trying to get this mystery method into my head. As soon as it's there I'll be sarging loads. I prefered location is outside night clubs (especially in Bristol). Sign me in.
 

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I'm registered now and since it's invite only I'll post more field reports, possibly a few pics at some point too.
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
Hey man I sarge a bit. I've stopped the past two weeks as im trying to get this mystery method into my head. As soon as it's there I'll be sarging loads. I prefered location is outside night clubs (especially in Bristol). Sign me in.
Register, then send me a PM with your nick at the board and I will give you access.

Jariel: Sounds great!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone want to join who sarges?

PM me
 

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splinterkb said:
If someone calls someone a noob, I'm pretty sure that any advice coming out of their mouth would be instantly thrown out the window.

that made me chuckle splint


count me in for the lounge abbas
 

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I wish we had went ahead with Pook's idea, create a Financial Forum. Sure it won't get much traffic, but the quality of the content will go A LONG way over the "I like this girl wtf do I do?" threads. Financial Freedom and Stability are two different things, people keep mixing the two up.
 

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ADD ME IN, but make it purely a FR and critique forum, that way you dont get bogged down with silly 'how do I become social posts." I would enjoy reading about real people making real attempts to improve.

Invite only.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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