"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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setting facebook status to "in a relationship" although ur not..good thing?

krakatoa

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some PUA guy taught me to set my facebook status to "in a relationship" although i'm single just to attract girls..what do u guys think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This will probally only work if

a. You have a ton of friends ( facebook is sort of private unlike myspace or match )
b. You are super handsome such as myself, brad pitt etc. If you are not really good looking and have a great pic you are just some loser in a reltationship pretending to be in a relationship that is willing to cheat on his girlfriend.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thanks vitor..i'm considered good looking but i dont have a lot of friends just 50 friends..the thing is i'm single and i set my status as "in a relationship" today..then this girl that i like that LJBF'd me just coupled today with this PUA guy..i approached that girl first but he got her cause he has stronger game..i know i'm being AFC for complaining and i should move on to other girls from now on..it still hurts though
 

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does anyone know any good "pick me up" thread when ur feeling down? haha
 

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what he taught you is total crap i think. it would repel girls, not many of them would want to mess with a guy in a relationship. maybe you can just don't tell something about your relationship status and leave it blank, it may create mystery and curiosity.
 

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yeah what he taught me was crap..just sometimes i doubt myself..thanks micon for the help..i really appreciate it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leave it blank.

Setting it as "in a relationship" even though you are not is extremely lame. You're basically lying to desperately get women to notice you.
 

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facebook is not good for meeting new chicks.. Myspace, match are pretty good. Going to partys are great, let your friends know you are single and looking to mingle. Goto a bar and throw it out there. I usally find that I meet hot chicks when I am not trying too, and when I try to hard they are no where to be found..
 

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Don Shinra said:
changing your status to "married" attracts teh women
Heh...on that note, wearing a wedding ring might help attract women;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leave it blank.

And by the way, you don't need to worry about girls already on your friends list. The ones you've gamed and slept with know what you are worth, while the others have already LJBFed you, and most likely their perception is not gonna change.
 
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