“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Set Yourself Free From Worrying

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Set Yourself Free From Worrying
A light read you can use to become a better person part 1

This is going to be a rebellion against our precious social conditioning. It is making us so happy is it not ? Of course it is not. I imagine social conditioning as an unwritten book of rules about how you should behave. And you could not do anything against. Your family started and the media, newspapers, movies are still doing it. Maybe you do not experience it because you were born in a PIMP family. But I do not believe you were because if it was so, I am sure you would not be reading this right now.

Guy made a party of 100 people, neighbours complained about the noise, they were running naked and so on. They were having fun. As I read in the newspapers they were behaving very immature. And this was not just one case, there are thousands of similar cases. So the newspapers are teaching us not to have fun. Did I just catch you saying that this is an extreme ? That it is wild and for crazy people only ? Think again what caused those thoughts in you. Social conditioning. You were taught to behave nice all the time, to hinder your wildness, creativity, spontaneity.

I was born to be crazy and I found this out when I started to realize that social conditioning is not my master, my boss, my god. It is worth nothing for me. I do crazy stuff all the time. I am having fun and I am being fully in the moment.

How many times have you felt nervous when you were a teenager and somebody suggested that you do a wild thing like taking of a shirt in the middle of the class. Like that is such a horrible thing I am thinking now. But when I was younger I considered it so unreachable and so wild. I had adrenaline running through my veins, my heart was pumping like a maniac and I took off my shirt. It was social conditioning that was teaching me that it is not right to put your shirt off. That being naked is impolite and rude to some people. Forget this programming of your mind and set yourself free from worrying and caring about what others think. I do not care about what SHOULD BE, I do what I want and I do it without regretting what I just did.

Be like a virus to it. Do not go anything near CRIMINAL like vandalism and any other forms of criminal. It is against social conditioning but seriously you really do not want to spend your life giving ass to other inmates. I do not tolerate criminal intents. I am crazy, but I do not tolerate criminal.

Right now I am feeling like I am telling you to become a maniac. Do all sick stuff you can imagine like spitting in your grandmas face and saying "**** You". I am not saying that and do not to this if you were thinking about it. These people love you. You are the most precious gift to them.

With being a virus I am going in the way of not caring about social conditioning when you want to do thinks that are fun, adventurous, exciting, take balls. I am talking about positive rule breaking. If you are out with a girl and there's a little park that is closed from public but you can jump over the fence. Then do it! This is what I am talking about. Not giving a single bit of your interest of what society tells us when you want to be creative, spontaneous and have fun.

Clear your precious mind of the garbage society tells you not to do just to have some fun and be crazy. Be an exception to the rule. Remember it, breathe it, become it. Also clean your mind of thinking about what others are thinking of you. I have felt so full of different thoughts when I wanted to kiss my girl in between a large group of people. I was constantly thinking if she seems attractive to other people, should I kiss her, what will others think, how can I appear very cool and **** like that. Do not care about what others think, erase this from your mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SinJester

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Ugh I'm struggling with this atm. I was becoming fun and spontanous and I didn't care for awhile... but my AFC self took back over. I don't worry so much about other people as much as my parents, I want to have fun but there's only so much you can keep from them and for a little while they will still be a large part of my life. They set the rules and I can't help it but I feel bad if I break them.

Any advice?
 

sam3083

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Hey Sindog!

Lets have a chat about this sometime...
 

SinJester

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Are you trying to hit on him?
We are mates outside the forum Matty

Oh wait.. was that a neg? :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sam3083

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DAMN! I came on too strong!

Which is what alot of you guys aren't doing, come to think of it.

Next time you see that girl you like, make sure she knows you like her (that goes out to you HS guys, btw)
 
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