“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Set up date with online chick 5 days in advance. What do in between?

sirkjd

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So I've been getting numbers from girls online.

This particular one, I got her phone number fairly quick. We then exchanged a few funny texts back and worth and set up a meeting for next Wednesday (which is in 5 days).

Not sure if I should contact her in between. Do you guys have any suggestions on what to do?

Right now i'm thinking of simply waiting until the day before (Tuesday) and mention the time and place to meet.

Any help is appreciated, thank you!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thatfeel21

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A lot of ppl on this forum will tell you to not send anything until you actually see her, but from my experience, whenever I tried to play the 'mysterious' game after getting a number quickly from an online chick, they always flaked. In this day and age women love to text so you have to make her really comfortable with her through the 2012 ways of communicating-texting. Just dont overdo it and make it so that she's the one texting you first after awhile. Also dont respond for a day or so then give her one brief call telling her youve been busy, etc.
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
A lot of ppl on this forum will tell you to not send anything until you actually see her, but from my experience, whenever I tried to play the 'mysterious' game after getting a number quickly from an online chick, they always flaked. In this day and age women love to text so you have to make her really comfortable with her through the 2012 ways of communicating-texting. Just dont overdo it and make it so that she's the one texting you first after awhile. Also dont respond for a day or so then give her one brief call telling her youve been busy, etc.
I second this. A bit of texting in between is a good way to build rapport and familiarity. It always works well for me.

Just ask a few easy to answer questions - e.g. hobbies, fave movies/music, how long they've been single, if they've done net dating before.
 

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Text the day before but a couple days of NC is good.

Once you're established, test them by specifying dates set in stone and go NC between - if she shows up/follows up you know she's highly interested.
 
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