"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Set up date with online chick 5 days in advance. What do in between?

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sirkjd

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So I've been getting numbers from girls online.

This particular one, I got her phone number fairly quick. We then exchanged a few funny texts back and worth and set up a meeting for next Wednesday (which is in 5 days).

Not sure if I should contact her in between. Do you guys have any suggestions on what to do?

Right now i'm thinking of simply waiting until the day before (Tuesday) and mention the time and place to meet.

Any help is appreciated, thank you!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A lot of ppl on this forum will tell you to not send anything until you actually see her, but from my experience, whenever I tried to play the 'mysterious' game after getting a number quickly from an online chick, they always flaked. In this day and age women love to text so you have to make her really comfortable with her through the 2012 ways of communicating-texting. Just dont overdo it and make it so that she's the one texting you first after awhile. Also dont respond for a day or so then give her one brief call telling her youve been busy, etc.
 
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Thatfeel21 said:
A lot of ppl on this forum will tell you to not send anything until you actually see her, but from my experience, whenever I tried to play the 'mysterious' game after getting a number quickly from an online chick, they always flaked. In this day and age women love to text so you have to make her really comfortable with her through the 2012 ways of communicating-texting. Just dont overdo it and make it so that she's the one texting you first after awhile. Also dont respond for a day or so then give her one brief call telling her youve been busy, etc.
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I second this. A bit of texting in between is a good way to build rapport and familiarity. It always works well for me.

Just ask a few easy to answer questions - e.g. hobbies, fave movies/music, how long they've been single, if they've done net dating before.
 
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Text the day before but a couple days of NC is good.

Once you're established, test them by specifying dates set in stone and go NC between - if she shows up/follows up you know she's highly interested.
 
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