"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Set up a date with a girl tonight and forgot its Halloween...Fvck!!!!

Soprano

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alright......what do i do???? set up a date with a girl visiting from out of the country for "Saturday"....totally slipped my mind that Saturday is the 31st!!! its halloween!!! son of a b!tch. i was just gonna take her out to dinner and then a club....she really wants to go out with me tonight....what should I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RMM

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Get a costume and go out for a non-dinner night? Sounds simple enough!
 

horaholic

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If she would rather go out with you, than do halloween party night, than thats a HUGE ioi.
 

Soprano

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dammit...i i think i might buy a costume and leave it in the back of my ride just incase....
 

CaliGuyInLondon

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lol this is not an issue. First of all, you said she's from out of country right? So tell her you want to take her out to experience a real "American" halloween. Trust me, i've lived in several countries, and just about everyone knows about our halloween and loves it. So tell her to dress up in something, tell her it doesn't matter what as long as she looks hotter than everyone else, and then take her to a club or a halloween party. if you can get her to go with you, then your basically guaranteed a good time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soprano

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alright **** it im gonna buy a costume on my way to where she's staying, just incase
 
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