"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seriously... WTF is going on in Mexico

backbreaker

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You know I try to stay out of the politics stuff here but this is getting out of control


NYPost – Leaving the audience wanting more is the goal of every musician, unless you’re a musician in violence-torn Mexico. Two members of local group La Excelencia were murdered in a Guadalajara bar early Monday morning after refusing to play more songs past closing time, El Occidental of Mexico reported. When La Excelencia’s performance came to an end around 4 a.m. local time, four reportedly intoxicated and aggressive audience members demanded the musicians continue playing. Sensing trouble, the group extended its set by two songs, but was eventually forced to pull the plug by the bar’s owner, according to El Occidental. Out of nowhere, one of the instigators threw a grenade at the stage. The explosion injured one person and had panicked customers running for the exits. Martinez and Alejandro were among those who fled the bar, but they were met at the front door by a hail of bullets, presumably from the same four men who had harassed them earlier.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nygard

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That's only on the news because it's near the US. Here in just ONE, read that again, just ONE state, there have been 45 murders on 2011. That's around 15 or 20 more than the whole country of Mexico ever since the year started. They don't call us the murder capital of the world for nothing, and don't get me started on common crime. On average, from 30% to 50% of the cities' inhabitants here are robbed each year and only 0.8% of the criminals are prosecuted.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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It's all about the drugs in Mexico. Who else would be hanging out in a bar at 4am with grenades on their person, save for a couple off-duty hired guns of the cartels?

It really is getting crazy down there. They are finding decapitated bodies all over the place, gun fights in the streets with the policia and national guard, nuts.

Mexico really needs to turn their sh!t around. Unfortunately, they probably have the most famously corrupt government in the world, and law enforcement is a for-profit enterprise down there.
 

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How much do vigilante snipers get paid these days???......:p


Mexico seems like the perfect place to pull that off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Slickster

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Nygard said:
That's only on the news because it's near the US. Here in just ONE, read that again, just ONE state, there have been 45 murders on 2011. That's around 15 or 20 more than the whole country of Mexico ever since the year started. They don't call us the murder capital of the world for nothing, and don't get me started on common crime. On average, from 30% to 50% of the cities' inhabitants here are robbed each year and only 0.8% of the criminals are prosecuted.
Ny,

You've got to get out of there man! It sounds scary.
 

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Carnival, Other Cruise Lines Fleeing California

http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/wireStory?id=12613050

"The cruise industry is seeing signs of recovery in Florida and elsewhere, but persistent drug-related violence has meant fading interest in cruises to Mexico, the chief destination of California-based ships."
 

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L B said:
Carnival, Other Cruise Lines Fleeing California

http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/wireStory?id=12613050

"The cruise industry is seeing signs of recovery in Florida and elsewhere, but persistent drug-related violence has meant fading interest in cruises to Mexico, the chief destination of California-based ships."
I heard Cali taxes the cruise industry so hard they cannot afford to be there anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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