"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seriously... WTF is going on in Mexico

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You know I try to stay out of the politics stuff here but this is getting out of control


NYPost – Leaving the audience wanting more is the goal of every musician, unless you’re a musician in violence-torn Mexico. Two members of local group La Excelencia were murdered in a Guadalajara bar early Monday morning after refusing to play more songs past closing time, El Occidental of Mexico reported. When La Excelencia’s performance came to an end around 4 a.m. local time, four reportedly intoxicated and aggressive audience members demanded the musicians continue playing. Sensing trouble, the group extended its set by two songs, but was eventually forced to pull the plug by the bar’s owner, according to El Occidental. Out of nowhere, one of the instigators threw a grenade at the stage. The explosion injured one person and had panicked customers running for the exits. Martinez and Alejandro were among those who fled the bar, but they were met at the front door by a hail of bullets, presumably from the same four men who had harassed them earlier.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's only on the news because it's near the US. Here in just ONE, read that again, just ONE state, there have been 45 murders on 2011. That's around 15 or 20 more than the whole country of Mexico ever since the year started. They don't call us the murder capital of the world for nothing, and don't get me started on common crime. On average, from 30% to 50% of the cities' inhabitants here are robbed each year and only 0.8% of the criminals are prosecuted.
 

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It's all about the drugs in Mexico. Who else would be hanging out in a bar at 4am with grenades on their person, save for a couple off-duty hired guns of the cartels?

It really is getting crazy down there. They are finding decapitated bodies all over the place, gun fights in the streets with the policia and national guard, nuts.

Mexico really needs to turn their sh!t around. Unfortunately, they probably have the most famously corrupt government in the world, and law enforcement is a for-profit enterprise down there.
 

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How much do vigilante snipers get paid these days???......:p


Mexico seems like the perfect place to pull that off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nygard said:
That's only on the news because it's near the US. Here in just ONE, read that again, just ONE state, there have been 45 murders on 2011. That's around 15 or 20 more than the whole country of Mexico ever since the year started. They don't call us the murder capital of the world for nothing, and don't get me started on common crime. On average, from 30% to 50% of the cities' inhabitants here are robbed each year and only 0.8% of the criminals are prosecuted.
Ny,

You've got to get out of there man! It sounds scary.
 

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Carnival, Other Cruise Lines Fleeing California

http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/wireStory?id=12613050

"The cruise industry is seeing signs of recovery in Florida and elsewhere, but persistent drug-related violence has meant fading interest in cruises to Mexico, the chief destination of California-based ships."
 

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L B said:
Carnival, Other Cruise Lines Fleeing California

http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/wireStory?id=12613050

"The cruise industry is seeing signs of recovery in Florida and elsewhere, but persistent drug-related violence has meant fading interest in cruises to Mexico, the chief destination of California-based ships."
I heard Cali taxes the cruise industry so hard they cannot afford to be there anyway.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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