"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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seriously..what the hell?

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Levex

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why did you have to delete my thread about Arafat?

in case you didnt notice the whole post was sarcastic. i been comin to anything else forum on and off for 2 years and havent seen this kinda crap before,these latest trigger happy moderators just delete everything they can get their hands on, whether its justified or not. its obvious you would delete threads about bush, election or the war, but in this one the closest thing even remotely related to politics was when i jokingly said there will be no dictators left...so what now we cant even use WORDS that have any political connection??


you gonna delete this thread too?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That thread could have went political really fast. Although i do believe that it shouldn't have been deleted until it went political. who am I to judge?

The mods have there reasons
 
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Originally posted by baseballDJ
That thread could have went political really fast. Although i do believe that it shouldn't have been deleted until it went political. who am I to judge?
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We're lazy, and its easy to have a broad view of political and just close everything before they get outa hand.

Sorry mates.
 
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what is the reason behind the ban on political threads?

whats the stance u guys are taking. I want to hear a good reason why we can't have a discussion about matters that may have a political angle to them- like most issues do anyhow- bit like that other guy wanting to understand other peoples views on the war in iraq.

Its not everyday i get the opportunity to discuss these things from people living in america or norway or wherever.

Furthermore, If there is a more intellectually mature site on the internet where this has been made possible please can you direct me there.


Regards,
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Originally posted by felony
what is the reason behind the ban on political threads?
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Do a search in this forum. Type in 'politics' or 'political'. That should bring up the posts that will answer your question.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by felony
Furthermore, If there is a more intellectually mature site on the internet where this has been made possible please can you direct me there.
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I doubt that they have any site on the Internet where you can discuss politics.





Oh, wait. I typed "political forum" into google and got over 20 million hits. :rolleyes:

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=political+forum
 
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