"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seriously what is best thing and when to text after you get phone number?

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Do you set the date up then and there? She seemed interested in me was investing and subtly touched me but she not responding to text i sent what do yall usually do?

Interesting meeting you ms tmobile dont get too cray this halloweekend
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol bro I can't understand you 100%. What the **** did you write at the end?
You will usually want to make a date before she gets you the number. If you decide to do it after for whatever reason, tell her to go with you to something you are interested in doing. The time is not that much important imo. I've asked the next day and a couple of weeks after lol. Truth be told, when I made a date weeks in advance it was because I was not in town, and she knew it, I don't know if it would work out in other circumnstances.
 
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Something isnt going right i send her a text and no reply?? It has happend with almost every girl i get number from cold approach something is wrong. What do you text after you get the number?
 

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The reason might be in the interaction after the approach? Do you keep it light and fun? I recommend Krauser for daygaming. I mean, the texts after the numbers are not that important imo, just a little chat and then you ask if she's free x day and to meet you. It could go like this:
Hey Laura, how is "thing you talked about in the street" going? haha nice are you free this tuesday evening? lets meet at x at y to do z.
 

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A girl I fvcked who seemed very into me and straight out told me it was the best fvck she'd have in a long time went ghost on me. This was a couple years ago, I've never seen her since.

Women are weird sometimes, don't try to figure out why, it will drive you crazy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you set the date up then and there? She seemed interested in me was investing and subtly touched me but she not responding to text i sent what do yall usually do?

Interesting meeting you ms tmobile dont get too cray this halloweekend
women are fvcking dumb, they'll give guys they don't like their number and then not respond.

if she doesn't respond, unless you sent something horribly wrong as a text (something that would freak her out, like saying neo-nazi stuff to a jewish girl or sounding like a psycho murderer) then it's most likely she never planned to respond
 

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look,tip from a 17 year old but listen
dont say hi dont do anything like that

FIRST MESSAGE AFTER SHOULD BE RELATED TO THE CONVERSATION BEFORE for example let's take these killer clowns they are pretty popular right now if you guys talked about that your first message should be "hope you didn't meet a clown on your way home haha" or some **** like that

just take a situation and make her not respond with "hi" "yes" "no" also
another factor to take in is when you text her
all these guys are saying wait 4 days 3 days i say stfu and just do whats the best i always text right after the conversation maybe even during the conversation just play with it

another thing once i snapped a pic of a girl leaving after our convo and wrote "that ass" she couldnt believe i did that and she fell for it POINT IS HAVE FUN WITH IT
 
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