Seriously, what can I do about this?

[RazorAzoth]

My core problem in my life is that I worry too much about what people think of me. Because of this, I'll often worry so much that I'll either say something stupid/awkward or do something to mess up somehow and embarrass myself. All because I worry/care way too much about how people see me and how they think of me.

How can I stop this? I was hoping there was an anxiety pill I could take to help me mellow out a lot of not care anymore, but they all seem to have nasty side effects. And they're really doesn't seem to be anything all-natural to take to help me eliminate this problem.

What can I do?

 

[romangod]

I would suggest some alternate medicine. Do a search on the net and find out about herbs and vitamins that might help you physically while you work on yourself mentaly.



Good luck.


Cheers!

 

[Wiesman44]

My core problem in my life is that I worry too much about what people think of me. Because of this, I'll often worry so much that I'll either say something stupid/awkward or do something to mess up somehow and embarrass myself. All because I worry/care way too much about how people see me and how they think of me.

How can I stop this? I was hoping there was an anxiety pill I could take to help me mellow out a lot of not care anymore, but they all seem to have nasty side effects. And they're really doesn't seem to be anything all-natural to take to help me eliminate this problem.

What can I do?

its all in your head. If u do not have the mental strength to overcome it, there is nothing else u can do. Medicine could be a temporary solution, but not permanent.

 

[RazorAzoth]

There isn't even a pill I could get a perscription for that will help this?

 

[SmellyOrc]

Get your f*cking head out of the quick-fix-with-a-pill mentality. That'll help.

 

[It's-Me]

My core problem in my life is that I worry too much about what people think of me. Because of this, I'll often worry so much that I'll either say something stupid/awkward or do something to mess up somehow and embarrass myself. All because I worry/care way too much about how people see me and how they think of me.

How can I stop this? I was hoping there was an anxiety pill I could take to help me mellow out a lot of not care anymore, but they all seem to have nasty side effects. And they're really doesn't seem to be anything all-natural to take to help me eliminate this problem.

What can I do?

I got that problem too, but it's going better lately. You just gotta say **** it, and do it! Easier said that done, obviously

 

[pg_lost]

There are numerous Pills:

SSRIs, or Riddilin or Adderall.

And If you cant get any of those, I guess there`s always coke, but that doesnt come in pill form.

 

[It's-Me]

There are numerous Pills:

SSRIs, or Riddilin or Adderall.

And If you cant get any of those, I guess there`s always coke, but that doesnt come in pill form.

Unfortunately, I don't believe in pills.

 

[Alle_Gory]

St. Johns wort. Its like a SSRI but natural.

Now because it doesn't have any side effects, its weak. It will take at least a month to 'load' it into your system.

But it is useful for eliminating mild depression, and reducing stress & anxiety.


That's about all you can do physically. The rest is in your head.

 

[SinJester]

Why is everyone reccomending pills these days?

 

[Alle_Gory]

St. Johns wort is not a pill. Its an extract from a plant.

Its about as effective as green tea, except without the caffeine. It does its work differently.

 

[pg_lost]

Unfortunately, I don't believe in pills.

Unfortunately, the original poster was asking about pills, so it doesnt matter what you believe in. And if you have anxiety problems, not believing in science, or pills, doesnt mean they dont work.

 

[pg_lost]

St. Johns wort. Its like a SSRI but natural.

Now because it doesn't have any side effects, its weak. It will take at least a month to 'load' it into your system.

But it is useful for eliminating mild depression, and reducing stress & anxiety.


That's about all you can do physically. The rest is in your head.

I`m gonna try that. But I dont think st.johns is completely without side effects. If you are taking other medication, you should let your doc know. Cause I learned about this lady that had a transplant, and she was also taking St.Jonhs wort, but failed to tell her doc cause she thought it was harmless. It countered the anti-rejection pills she was taking and she lost the organ, and died.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Yup. Also, you can't be taking St. Johns wort if you're taking anti-depressants.

Check with the doc if you're taking any kind of medication.
Also, its good to do a check if you're mixing herbs. Sometimes there are bad side effects when they interact in your bloodstream, just like drugs.

The less you take the better. Stick to one or two herbs at a time if you can.

 

[SuavePlaya]

Think about it this way if someone else can do it why can't you? Any excuse you provide is just fear and not real. Nothing you say is awkward unless you think it is awkward and most the time it's not it's just how you feel and react that makes what you say akward...

 

[Desert Fox]

how about this:

- get pills if you want

or

- do what I did and just stop giving a **** about the things that DON'T REALLY MATTER. STOP CARING SO MUCH. START TO CULTIVATE A STRONGER EGO. THINK BETTER OF YOURSELF AND IF YOU FVCK UP JUST BE LIKE "HAHA DON'T CARE!!! I BET THESE FVCKERS FVCK UP 100 X MORE THAN I DO HAHAHAHA. I WON'T LET THIS HAPPEN AGAIN."

LAUGH IT OFF, DON'T BE A DOUCHE AND FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF U PVSSY!!!

 

[Alle_Gory]

how about this:

- get pills if you want

or

- do what I did and just stop giving a **** about the things that DON'T REALLY MATTER.

Why not do both? A holistic approach always works better.

START TO CULTIVATE A STRONGER EGO. THINK BETTER OF YOURSELF AND IF YOU FVCK UP JUST BE LIKE "HAHA DON'T CARE!!! I BET THESE FVCKERS FVCK UP 100 X MORE THAN I DO HAHAHAHA. I WON'T LET THIS HAPPEN AGAIN."

You mean self-esteem. Ego can be very volatile.

LAUGH IT OFF, DON'T BE A DOUCHE AND FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF U PVSSY!!!

:kick:

 

[Groovy]

Why do you even worrie about what other people think? What matters in what you think. You created this problem for yourself... YOU solve it. No pill will ever work.

If you think you're the man... you're the man! If you don't think like this, obviously you're going to look for other people's validation.

Anyways, don't go in for the approval- assume you have it already. You like yourself, why do you need validation? Go in for the fun. That's it. You like to have fun don't you? So.