RazorAzoth
Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What on God's green earth are you talking about?Mr.Positive said:Guys, don't take this crap.
Now they have medications for phobias, such as fear of spiders?!? Come on. Enough is enough. There's so many damn meds out there, people are going to need meds to just deal with the basket full of meds they are taking...
You don't need medication for phobias. You need to kick yourself in the ass and cure the phobia. The old fashion way.
I don't understand why society pushes for medicating everything.
Grow some balls and heal the natural way. Don't take any prescribed shortcuts.
My two bits.
My apologizes Razor, I read through where it said "no medications come close" and just disregarded it as another crutch people grab to solve their problems.RazorAzoth said:What on God's green earth are you talking about?
It's an MP3 file you listen to and it works as a pattern interrupt (see: NLP) for your brain's computer to change bad thoughts and emotions.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What? What happened with "Grow some balls and heal the natural way. Don't take any prescribed shortcuts."? The first post kicked much ass but this one you made looks like it contradicts your first.Mr.Positive said:My apologizes Razor, I read through where it said "no medications come close" and just disregarded it as another crutch people grab to solve their problems.
If it's just an MP3 file at least it's not affecting anyone physically. Maybe this thing has merit. If you try it, let us know!