"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seriously, has anyone tried this?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys, don't take this crap.

Now they have medications for phobias, such as fear of spiders?!? Come on. Enough is enough. There's so many damn meds out there, people are going to need meds to just deal with the basket full of meds they are taking...

You don't need medication for phobias. You need to kick yourself in the ass and cure the phobia. The old fashion way.

I don't understand why society pushes for medicating everything.

Grow some balls and heal the natural way. Don't take any prescribed shortcuts.

My two bits.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Guys, don't take this crap.

Now they have medications for phobias, such as fear of spiders?!? Come on. Enough is enough. There's so many damn meds out there, people are going to need meds to just deal with the basket full of meds they are taking...

You don't need medication for phobias. You need to kick yourself in the ass and cure the phobia. The old fashion way.

I don't understand why society pushes for medicating everything.

Grow some balls and heal the natural way. Don't take any prescribed shortcuts.

My two bits.
What on God's green earth are you talking about?

It's an MP3 file you listen to and it works as a pattern interrupt (see: NLP) for your brain's computer to change bad thoughts and emotions.
 

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RazorAzoth said:
What on God's green earth are you talking about?

It's an MP3 file you listen to and it works as a pattern interrupt (see: NLP) for your brain's computer to change bad thoughts and emotions.
My apologizes Razor, I read through where it said "no medications come close" and just disregarded it as another crutch people grab to solve their problems.

If it's just an MP3 file at least it's not affecting anyone physically. Maybe this thing has merit. If you try it, let us know!
 

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Ah I see, no problem.

PSTEC is described as...

"In a "nutshell", the basic PSTEC system is a unique 11 minute audio track which can be played to anyone (including yourself) to create a resolution for almost any problem related to unwanted emotions or feelings. Whilst that may sound unlikely, PSTEC has been described as being possibly the fastest and most efficient neutraliser of problem emotions ever created. Better than that, it's free to help yourself. Use it for a flying phobia, to increase your confidence or for any other emotional problem you want to be released from."

This could be huge for this forum if we all try this and it works. We could say OUR community found this and were the first forum to use it for dating.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr.Positive said:
My apologizes Razor, I read through where it said "no medications come close" and just disregarded it as another crutch people grab to solve their problems.

If it's just an MP3 file at least it's not affecting anyone physically. Maybe this thing has merit. If you try it, let us know!
What? What happened with "Grow some balls and heal the natural way. Don't take any prescribed shortcuts."? The first post kicked much ass but this one you made looks like it contradicts your first.

Why not heal your emotinoal problems yourself? It will make you proud of yourself and increase your self esteem even more. A better method to me seems to be: Doing Tai Chi. It has both emotinal benefits (wtf?) and physical ones too. Why not play chess (in my case) or (in your case) go do some other hobbie YOU love! See what would THAT do for your emotions.
 
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