"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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serious question about women on the phone

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DJnoob

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well, as I have mentioned couple months ago, i made my first white woman friend who i talk on the phone with.

Compared to the way I talk to my guy friends, this chick talks more (about what she's doing, where she went etc etc). It gets to the point where im just there listening. She didnt even ask how things were with me.

Is this how most of your female friends talk to you guys or is this just this particular chick? Jeez.. i feel like my ear drums are gona pop
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamePendo

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Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.

In what way is listening to her ****, ON THE TELEPHONE, courting?
 
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DJDamage

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SamePendo said:
Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.
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Bingo.

Friendship with this girl will not make you better with women. She sees you as one of her girlfriends. Go find some male friends and go play sport or something, that is normal.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJnoob

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you guys are right. She is just a friend of mine. (first female friend). But, since i have no experience with female friends on the phone, I was just wondering if thats how they talk on the phone as friends...They talk about whatever, stupid junk they can think of
 
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